The Misunderstood Feral Cat
By Christine Michaels
Chances are that you will come across stray and feral cats in your lifetime. These outdoor animals are often misunderstood. Whether you spot them in your backyard, around your office park, or while traveling abroad, misconceptions still prevail worldwide about stray and feral cat. Learning the facts can help overturn the myths and stop the overpopulation and mistreatment of homeless cats.
The Difference Between a Feral and Stray Cat
A feral cat is typically born in the wild or outdoors with little to no human interaction. If you attempt to get too close or try to pet them, feral cats view your hand as a claw that will harm them and will hiss and/or run away. Feral cats are born from other ferals or from stray cats. What is the difference between the two? Well, a stray cat was once a pet cat, until it was either lost or was abandoned by its owner. While they struggle to survive in their new outdoor environment, some strays become fearful of people, even adopting feral behaviors after a period of time, depending on their surroundings. However, most stray cats remember that humans feed them and try to stay near homes, carports, and other areas where people concentrate.
When a regular caretaker notices a stray cat that is friendly, it is recommended to take the cat to a veterinarian to scan for a possible microchip. In lucky instances, the stray cat and its owner are happily reunited.
Anyone Can Become a Caretaker for Stray Cats
Feral cats have a rough life and live, on average, two years on their own. With regular care, which includes reliable shelter and daily feedings similar to the care of barnyard cats, they can live as long as ten years. If you decide to become a caretaker, an important lesson is to never forcefully grab an outdoor cat or make a sudden movement towards it. These cats are fearful of people and tend to run away as strangers approach them. Let the feral or stray cat come closer to you on his/her terms.
Through daily feedings, in time they will let you know if it's acceptable to touch them. Another helpful hint: If you do decide to become a caretaker, squat or sit on the ground so you're at their level when you regularly feed them. This approach indicates to the feral or stray cat that you are not threatening.
How Wild is Wild?
In my work with feral cats, I learned that there are varying degrees of "wildness." Most of the feral cats will not allow me to touch them, but I can come within millimeters to dispense their food. One cat, Lion King, after three years of feeding him, gradually came closer to the feeding bowl; he now rubs against my legs. Recently, I was able to start petting him, but only when he's facing away from me. If Lion King turns to face me while I am stroking his gold fur, he hisses in displeasure. Pretty Boy and Tabitha allow me to pet them, but nervously jump out of my arms when I attempt to pick them up. The lesson learned: respect their limits.
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we get a quite a few of them here where I live in the country I leave food out for them and always fresh water... they will sneak to eat and gradually they will stay out in view to eat then they will come to the porch and lay and pretty soon the are rubbing theirselves on your legs and pretty soon they will allow you to touch them and then there are wild cats that will not stay long they will eat and go and not return.
The elderly lady next door, whose back yard is adjacent to my side yard separated only by a small alley, is grossly neglected,over run with long grass and foliage (including a thick group of large overlapping, crisscrossing trees with low lying branches, and a broken down, rotted out, termite infested, old barn. It houses, at any given time, approximately 100-130 "free roaming" cats and kittens. She puts pans of food out for them every evening; although she cannot, and makes no effort to touch or pet them. They are all very skinny, flea infested, many with most of their hair missing, sneezing and coughing, and most kittens stay with puss and gunk in their eyes. We live in a small town with no real animal control dept and absolutely no shelter/rescue/ rehab/adoption type of programs. The one part-time control officer will only come out if a person is in immediate danger. More than once, following a large rainfall, I have found drowned kittens in my drive way. These animals are suffering and have infested my yard with fleas to the point that we (humans) cannot be outside, except for a few minutes at a time... afternoon bar-b-ques are out of the question. I have two dogs who must be rushed out and back into the house for potty breaks and I have to treat them both twice a month with Advantage flea drops. I have a huge fenced in yard that we cannot use, less we be ravished by fleas. Our town will take no action in making this lady clean up her back lot and, as mentioned before, animal control will not set traps or even respond without immediate and eminent danger. Even if we trap the "free roamers" ourselves and bring them to the "pound," as it is still referred to, they will be put down the next time the exterminating vet comes to town, whether it be in an hour or 10 days. I cannot see any purpose for feeding and trying to establish any kind of relationship with these sickly animals. Nothing good can come of it. The old lady's habit of putting food out for them has only made things worse and actually preclude any resolve for this horrible situation. Feral cats are usually full of fleas and ticks and are often malnourished and sick. I find nothing conducive to the well-being of these animals by feeding and attempting to develop a level of trust or any sort of human/feral cat relationship. Perhaps in other cities/towns, such actions maybe beneficial, but that is not the case here. by 3Dogs1Cat on 08/17/2012 03:02am
What a sad situation for all involved. by Amanda Soileau on 08/18/2012 11:45pm
Thanks for the suggestion... even more so, thanks for taking the time to care enough to offer a suggestion. I will look into it and ask my vet what he thinks; however my vet is living through this... so, any helpful suggestion (vet or no vet) I will explore. by pilotom on 08/17/2012 11:30am
Amanda - try contacting the ASPCA or Alley cats (https://www.alleycat.org/) to see if there are rescue groups in nearby towns then contact those. They might be willing to take on this situation as a project. Feeding the ferals isn't the issue - not spaying/neutering them is. If a group can get out there and trap them all, they might be able to remove the kittens and less feral ones to get them adopted and spay/neuter the rest. Those that remain and are put back, should be fine once the numbers are under control since they won't be reproducing and they'll tend to keep out new cats since it's their territory. The rescue groups will usually vaccinate cats when they spay/neuter and treat them for fleas so the animals that go back will be healthy. If an eye is kept on the situation to make sure and new cats that do show up are promptly fixed, the cats will be able to live relatively good lives and they won't be negatively impacting the neighbors. They have a right to live those lives and shouldn't be killed just because they don't have homes or can't be pets. If your Jazz hadn't been as lucky as he was, he might have ended up in a situation like this one. Oh and there might be a little Jazz in that group that could add a bit of feline mischief into your household. Consider saving a life while you're seeking help for the rest. Good luck! by Amanda Soileau on 08/18/2012 11:41pm
Thank you so much for the genuine concern and support you expressed. I will immediately use the links you listed. And, I have rescued some of the kittens (not nearly enough to be noticeable) and have found them good forever homes. But, if I am truly honest with myself, I do look for that special one that melts my heart and I hope you are correct with your insight that I may find another little Jazz in there someday!! But I will first have to find a successful solution to this overwhelming problem first!! by Ilonaj1 on 08/26/2012 05:59pm
Hi Amanda, by Oomily on 09/06/2012 02:44pm
Hi Amanda,
Amanda, have you ever done anything to try to help the neighbor? You might try getting a group together to help clean up her property, apply pesticides to the yard, and do something to rescue the cats. If they're sick, and with that many in one place, chances are very high that they are sharing one or more of the many viruses that kill or diminish the health of cats that live in large groups, they need to be evaluated and treated. Contact the Parish (I'm guessing by your surname that you live somewhere in Louisiana) and explain the situation. If they take no action, find the nearest ASPCA or similar organization and see if you can get help. There's another route you could follow: call Social Services to check on the elderly human inhabitant. This is not a problem that can't be solved. It's a situation you should have addressed before it reached this level. You can help instead of complaining. You and your neighbor will be much happier and the humans, canines, and felines will all be healthier if you deal with something your neighbor apparently cannot. by Amanda Soileau on 08/18/2012 11:33pm
I moved into this situation 3 yrs ago and it was even worse... so no I did not think of doing anything before it got this bad. The woman lives in a beautiful home and she and her Maltese live very comfortably; however, she is not willing to do anything about the situation. I have trapped kittens (16 to be exact), got them medical attention, kept them inside with us and socialized them and then found them all good homes. A few weeks ago I heard a few kittens crying and saw a dead cat on the road... from the sound of the kittens it was their mother, so I asked the lady if I could try to locate the kittens and take them in... she refused. In the middle of the night, as the kittens continued to cry, I tried to get into the rotten out barn, in the dark, to find the kittens and take them in. 3 were dead and the other two were lying on top of them... one of the two had its eyes open the other did not, so they were less than two weeks old. So that takes the total to 18 young kittens and 5 older ones who were fearful and wild, but finally came around, went to vet, moved in, tamed up then went to good homes. Fortunately, after my midnight rescue of the two newborns, a friend took them in. If I could save everyone of these cats/kittens, I would. by Yvonne Kakely on 09/26/2012 12:55pm
Your comment was not helpful. In fact, it was mean. Would love to see you in the same situation. As a matter of fact, now that you know about it, why aren't YOU helping Amanda resolve the situation instead of critisizing. You could offer a donation for the vet bills and medical bills she has endured. THAT would be helpful. by Payitforward36 on 12/11/2012 05:44pm
Unfortunately it is people like you that make others think twice about getting involved in situations like this. My heart goes out to Amanda and everyone involved in this awful situation. I'm not sure what your story is but you apparently have to much time on your hands!!!! It appears that your comment really affected Amanda negatively. It is disheartning that you actuallty judged someone on a comment they posted! Lets look at every situation you have ever been in and see if you are the saint you are trying to appear to be. Amanda keep your head up! This person's opinion is disgusting and not how I feel. I'm sure other's feel the same but would rather not get involved.
About three months ago, two little girls came to me and asked if I'd seen the kittens living in a sheltered part of the common area between townhouses in my complex. I watched and waited, and discovered that a young female had four little ones that were probably four weeks old. She had been abandoned by a family that had moved away. Her little kittens were already very distrustful of humans. Although I attempted then to take them in and socialize them, they quickly scrambled into a place where they were inaccessible. Their mom was a very good hider of kittens! Since that time, I have fed them religiously, working to gradually gain their trust. I contacted my vet (I have three very senior cats, ages 15 and 16), and she has agreed to help with the spay/neuter process as soon as I can get the five cats to her. They gradually became more and more frequent visitors in my courtyard, and now spend most of their time inside my privacy fence. I have made a dry shelter for them in my courtyard, and they come inside my house if I leave the door open when it's raining. I fear that the mom may have conceived another litter. If so, and if I can nab her, we will let her have this litter and keep them indoors so they trust people, and place them when they're old enough. The others might have to stay near me, and when I move next summer, go with me. Their future is uncertain until I'm able to complete the process of gaining their trust and getting them sterilized. Ideally, if they can be turned into good little pet cats, we will try to place them in good homes. If not, I will not abandon them and I will not take them to the pound. by pilotom on 08/17/2012 11:19am
Try to trap them and bring them inside. That's how you're going to gain their trust. I have 8 cats that ALL started out as feral outside cats and are now very loving pet cats. Some are still scared of other humans if those come into the house but none are scared of me. You have to spend time with them in the same room where they're in. You can try sitting on the floor and playing with them - throwing strings and little balls their way. Most kittens will find this stuff irresistible and will eventually start playing. Also - it's important that they SEE you interacting with your senior cats - picking them up, petting them, etc. This way they'll learn that hey - you aren't so bad since you aren't eating those big cats ;-) Definitely get momma and spay her. If she's pregnant already, you can still spay her as long as the pregnancy isn't too far along. You are wonderful to care for these animals and be willing to help them. Your seniors should do fine with the new felines eventually - particularly since the new additions are kittens and a female adult. Contact local rescue groups if you need a trap. They can probably loan you one and give you tips on how to use one. Good luck! by Leah Wright on 08/20/2012 04:10pm
So, I am in Iowa but this story and your struggles made me want to do something. So, I researched a bit and came up with a cat rescue in Baton Rouge about an hour away. I gave them the link to this blog and asked them to contact you Amanda if they can provide you any help at all. It was worth a shot. Bless you for everything you are doing for these poor creatures. by Amanda Soileau on 08/18/2012 11:54pm
I would take the same course of action. It is so obvious when you meet another person who selflessly gives to the little creatures who can't always do it on there own! Bringing the 1st litter with you, may not be an easy task, but you are willing to make that sacrifice for them... that's so touching.
You certainly have done more than your share of trying to "fix" this out-of-control situation. God bless you for that. My fiance and I live in apartments where students dump their animals (all it takes is one male and one unfixed female) when they graduate. We have, too, been through the ups and downs of caring for all the strays, kittens, and tomcats who are attracted to the female's scents. We have been blessed with two extremely affectionate angels, who both passed away in an 8 month to 2 year timespan. Our hearts were blessed by the amazing love these two cats shared with us. We feel your pain. Thank you for posting your post. You MUST NOT feel badly or take what others say too personally. I pray that the good people out there have been of some help in your situation.
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by Orianna Panko on 09/16/2012 07:17pm
Hi Amanda, I am in Canada and and really feel for you and this situation. I am lucky enough to live in an area where we have a no lil shelter who also is active with other humane societies across north America. They also take in animals from rescue organizations in California. Our city and surrounding area is very happy to fundraise too.
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