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Would You Buy Your Grandkids a Pet Rat?



A Short Stay


An hour later, Morgan came to her senses. She called on her cell to ask me to meet her halfway between her house and ours (we live 20 miles apart). "I'm wondering if you would mind keeping Sara at your house," she said.


So I took Sara back. Now, I would keep a pony in my playroom if the girls wanted me to. An elephant. But Sara produced a musty smell in the bathroom in which I hid her from my husband. She ate that little black-and-white fabric igloo in the cage — which, by the way, turned out to have been made for hamsters, and was much too small for a rat. So I had to move her to a larger plastic box. And, of course, the girls only come by here occasionally, while the rat would have to hang her toothbrush next to ours full time.


I gave Sara away a few days later, but was left with the memory of having been an idiot. Again.


I do give my grandkids a lot of stuff. When Ryan was a baby, I met Morgan in the park one day after work. As I pulled toy after toy out of my backpack, a woman who'd been watching drawled, "Let me guess: This is the grandmother, and it's the first grandchild." Recently, I helped Morgan move and found myself having to haul away all the space-swallowing toys I'd given the girls, from a twice-life-size duck, to a drive-in Barbie car, to no fewer than four bikes. I realized then how patient Morgan is with me, as I arrive with bags in hand, and then say, "Oh, and there's something else out in the truck."


I get the hit of delighting the kids with the present, and my daughter? She gets a giant stuffed duck.


Will I stop doing this? I should. I will.


I'll try.


Image: John Morgan / via Flickr


This article originally appeared on Grandparents.com.



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  • WHAT?
    11/02/2011 02:46am

    I had to actually register on this site JUST SO I COULD COMMENT.

    Rats make some of the best pets in the world for people who will actually give them a chance! They are loving, intelligent, and are always ready to amuse. Adopting a ANY pet just to give it away a few days later is just heartless. Not only are you turning away an animal that probably thinks it finally has a good home but you are also causing that same animal stress: rats don't like to travel and they can get very nervous around new people. Their lives are worth just as much as any other animal. Would you do this to a cat? A dog? Of course not. But because "It's just a rat" it's disposable, right?

    Far too often do people get a pet "for the kids" and the pet winds up suffering for it. You want something for the kids? Get them a teddy bear.

    A proud rat mother

  • 11/02/2011 10:33pm

    I am in complete agreement with the person who posted above me. A LIVING ANIMAL is not a toy, and not something to buy on impulse. YOU decide to put yourself in charge of another life, and it's your responsibility to take care of said life, no matter how big, or small.

    That being said, rats are smart, affectionate animals, and if the columnist had done their research beforehand, they would have learned that first off rats need to live with atleast one other rat, and second, that a plastic box is in no way appropriate housing.

    Once you're done showing your kids the "Miracle of life" Make sure you take them to the shelter with you to experience "The miracle of death"

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