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10 White Lies Veterinarians Tell Clients

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White Lies

By Victoria Heuer


Pet owners come in all shapes and sizes. Some are prepared and gracious when they bring their pets in to see the vet, while others are clueless and self-entitled, as any of us who visit dog parks know first-hand. Most pet owners fall somewhere in between, so if you recognize yourself in any of these veterinary sarcasms, take notes for your next visit so that you and your pet won’t be the next clients from H-E-double-toothpicks.


Taken from the petMD Classics archives, the original list was created by Dr. Patty Khuly, DVM, who surveyed some of her veterinary friends to get an idea of their most common reasons to fib to clients. 

“She’s not fat, she’s just Rubenesque.”


What it really means: If your veterinarian is telling you that your pet is “Rubenesque,” she or he is probably not saying that your pet is like a beautifully plump woman in a Renaissance painting by Peter Paul Reubens. More than likely, your vet is trying to avoid telling you that your pet is morbidly obese.



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“You might want to cut down on his food just a tad.”


What it really means: This is a white lie that is masking as a suggestion. What your vet is really saying is that your pet is morbidly obese, and you might want to take that statement as an order rather than a suggestion if you want to preserve your pet’s health.



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"That muzzle? We just use them because we like to be careful here..."


"...it’s really no reflection on her personality."


What it really means: Okay, it really is a reflection on her personality. We don't trust your assurances that "she wouldn't hurt a fly" and we are not going to risk our own skin to find out. 



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“She’s not stinky, she smells just like a spring breeze.”


What it really means: Your dog smells “like a Golden retriever after a summer downpour.”


Have you ever hugged a dog after it has come in from the rain? Unless you were born anosmatic, you know that odeur de chien mouillé (i.e, wet dog odor) is not a pleasant scent. Shampoo does not do a lot to mask the smell, and in fact can make it even worse if you are in the habit of shampooing your dog too often. In addition, your vet can tell a lot about your dog’s health from its natural smell, so leave the bathing for after the visit to the vet.



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"Oops! Don’t worry! The bleeding tends to stop pretty quickly…"


What it really means: Oh, shoot. I really wish you hadn't been here to see that bit of clumsiness. But I will make everything better and he really will be okay—I promise!



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"She’s not so dirty. Dogs and cats get mats like this all the time in their fur."


What it really means: You're either going to have to keep your dog shaved down, learn how to brush him properly, or see a groomer regularly, because mats are not cute. They're gross. 



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"These grungy ears? That’s OK, I don’t mind cleaning them."


What it really means: Seriously though, are we going to find skeletons under all this dirt? 



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“Don’t worry, we’ll pick it up; it happens all the time.”


What it really means: Accidents happen… “though usually not on the walls and all over the technician.” Try not to feel bad about it though. They see sick pets all the time, so they aren’t too surprised when it happens.



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“You want me to check his anal glands? Sure—I’d love to!”


What it really means: Sure, it’s your vet’s job to check and try to fix everything, but your vet enjoys palpating anal glands about as much as you would enjoy it. Which is to say, not much.



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"You forgot your credit card? Don’t worry—we trust you."


What it really means: Bringing your pet in to see the doctor without being prepared to pay for the visit and the medications is more than a small annoyance. Running a medical practice costs money—and no small amount, either. Even the most thoughtful, long-time clients can forget that they owe money to their doctors. So even if your pet really needs those meds, if your veterinarian insists on you paying up front for the visit and medication, keep in mind that your vet has bills to pay, too. 



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  • Doesn't move
    08/09/2015 02:57pm

    It would be nice if it worked but I couldn't get it to progress at all thru the slides

  • 08/10/2015 03:49pm

    Try Internet Explorer. I was having problems with Firefox, but IE worked.

  • 08/21/2015 03:53pm

    I could not get it to work on either IE or Chrome.

  • 08/26/2015 12:45pm

    I'm using Chrome and it worked perfectly fine. Maybe your computer?

  • 03/20/2016 02:13am

    Seriously? LMAO

  • No White Lies Here...
    11/06/2015 04:54am

    My vet is tactful, but never holds back an opinion. Thank Goodness she doesn't take us to task very often - just about my Maine Coon's extra few pounds. Other than that - everything's shiny at her office :)

  • Passive Agressive Vets?
    04/23/2016 04:28am

    Okay, if you're vet is not confident in being direct about issues with your pet then either a) you're a pacifist loser aka pvssy or b) that vet has no business caring for your pets.

    If the vet can't properly say you're pet is overweight and should consider a better diet so it won't get heart disease, or kidney failure, they're doing you and your pet an incredible disservice and should probably be put out of practice.

    and any vet not willing to admit or tell the owner they accidental made your pet bleed than id consider legal action and a new vet.

    and any vet that isn't comfortable inspecting or caring for every part of your pet is not a vet at all. they can't be self-serving.

  • 04/28/2016 04:46pm

    i totally agree with you. i work at a vet office and this article makes us look terrible. you can be direct and to the point without sugar coating or insulting people. it's a fine line but it's what's best for the pet.

  • no story to read
    11/17/2016 12:46pm

    Can't read story won't go to next page