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A Good Death

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March 04, 2013 / (3) comments


One of my patients died last night. I am sad that she is no longer with us but nonetheless at ease with her passing.

As many of you know, I work in a practice dedicated to end-of-life care. Most of our clients call us for our in-home euthanasia services. Our "typical" patient (if there is such a thing) has been diagnosed with a terminal condition and was treated appropriately for a period of time, but with quality of life declining, the owners eventually opt for euthanasia.

We also offer hospice services. In truth, most of these cases are not all that different from what I just described, we just get to the patient a little earlier in the course of their disease and institute whatever palliative measures are necessary to keep them comfortable and enjoying life for as long as possible. Many of our hospice clients eventually elect to euthanize, looking at hospice as an alternative to premature euthanasia, not to euthanasia in general.

 

But this patient, I’ll call her "Reba," and her owners were different. Reba had been diagnosed with oral cancer and was probably affected by canine cognitive dysfunction as well. Her owners were ethically opposed to euthanasia, feeling that her entire life had value. As one of them said, "Either she has something to learn or something to teach us even in her last days."

This family had been through hospice with another dog before, but "Champ" had died just a few days after the decision to switch to a palliative approach was made. Reba was different. My first appointment with her was on New Year’s Eve. I certainly didn’t expect her to live for another two months and neither did her owners. We talked on the phone frequently during that time, adjusting her medications and other forms of care based on her condition, and I visited her at home for a recheck a couple of weeks ago. She had her ups and downs of course, but through it all I feel like we did a good job of keeping her comfortable and content.

Hospice care with the goal of easing a pet through death that does not occur through euthanasia is definitely not for everyone. It is often time consuming, exhausting (physically and emotionally), and can be expensive. What sets Reba’s owners apart is their willingness and ability to support her day and night, and their attention to detail. When an aspect of Reba’s condition changed, it was addressed in a timely and appropriate manner. She was never left to suffer.

Reba’s case helped me gain a greater appreciation for what people are willing to do for their animals and reinforced the idea that euthanasia is not the only way to ease a pet through the dying process. Reba died last night, in bed with her owner asleep on the floor beside her. Her passing was so peaceful that she did not even wake her owner. From the description I was given, I believe she simply took a few last breaths and then was gone.

Thank you, Reba. You certainly taught me a great deal in your last days.

 

 

Dr. Jennifer Coates

 

 

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COMMENTS (3)
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Devotion
by oh holland on 03/04/2013 11:26am

I'm not in agreement with Reba's people that no life should be ended other than by nature, because to me, it's our duty to end our pets' suffering when there's no prospect for relief.

That said, I admire Reba's caretakers' devotion to her, and their sensitivity to the dynamics of her condition. They did not simply sit by and let "nature take its course." They put real substance into making sure Reba comforted as much as possible. Without a doubt, Reba knew she was loved and would always be protected.

If only there were more people like Reba's ...

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Hospice Care
by TheOldBroad on 03/04/2013 05:49pm

"Reba died last night, in bed with her owner asleep on the floor beside her."

My heart breaks for the humans who took such great care of Reba. They obviously loved Reba a great deal.

I also very much appreciated that you mentioned that Reba was "never left to suffer".

While I'm not a fan of euthanasia because the critter will eventually suffer and have had kitties euthanized when they begin to suffer and the bad times outweigh the good, it sounds like Reba knew she was loved and didn't suffer.

Sometimes our critters just "know" it's time to go.

by Nina Creech on 03/05/2013 09:17am

I was a companion to a beautiful Siamese cat! She lived to be 19 years old. I was with her those last days and she did her best to please me and try to eat and drink. The last two days I was with her constantly, we both knew the time was soon. Animals do know. She fought so hard to stay with me, but her poor body just couldn't do any more. She was comfortable and , and she knew I loved her like a child. No offense to my boys (23 & 24), she was my girl! There isn't a day that doesn't go by that I think of her. She passed 1/19/2012 6:15 AM EST. I now have a barn kitten that adopted us. Angelica is definitely unlike Mae-Ling. But she does ease the pain a little bit. Hope all of you are so lucky and blessed to have a companion like Mae-Ling!

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...graduated with honors from the Virginia-Maryland Regional College of Veterinary Medicine in 1999. In the years since, she has practiced veterinary medicine in Virginia, Wyoming, and Colorado. She is the author of several books about veterinary medicine and animal care, including the Dictionary of Veterinary Terms: Vet-Speak Deciphered for the Non-Veterinarian. Dr. Coates also writes short stories that focus on the strength and importance of the human-animal bond, and freelance articles relating to a variety of animal care and veterinary topics. Dr. Coates lives in Fort Collins, Colorado with her husband, daughter, and various species of pets.

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