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When love is not enough to save your pet'¦what next?

February 23, 2007 / (13) comments


In my first job out of vet school I worked nights, alone, at a small regional emergency clinic on the Pennsylvania-Delaware line. But I wasn’t exactly all alone—I had two techs with me at all times. They were far more experienced in the ways of medicine and the world than I, newbie vet that I was.

After the first economic euthanasia (euthanized strictly due to lack of funds) I remember blubbering in the back room. The pet had been young and fixable. The clients had been rude to me. And I was confused as to how to handle the whole mess. I was crouching by the loud clang of the towel-drier—so as not to be overheard (or so I thought), when an old-timer tech came in and straightened me right out.

“You know,” she said, “some people will just never understand that love is not enough to keep their pets alive. So when they feed you that line, the one where they call you heartless and cruel, keep in mind that the only cruelty perpetrated is theirs—by inflicting their mistakes on your conscience and their own pet.”

I will never forget that lecture. I think wise techs are among the wisest people in the world, if you ask me.

Since that time I’ve learned to handle these inevitable situations better. But economic euthanasias will never fail to stress me out. As a matter of fact, I have one brewing in hospital right now: the calico kitty I wrote about three days ago.

I don’t doubt that her owner loves her—but her love will not save this cat. A plasma transfusion, expensive drugs and endoscopic retrieval of her gastric foreign bodies might. Short of that, I’d prefer to call it quits than to see this cat continue to suffer the possibility of a long-shot recovery with the half-a---- care she’s getting right now.

But enough of that diatribe; you’ve heard enough about that already. I want to get past the nasty feelings such conditions provoke and onto the real story here: what next…?

You can’t always fix every case, even if you had zillions of dollars. Barbaro is proof enough of that. But giving every case a chance is another story altogether. As a vet, of course I’d like to find a way to allow every owned and cared for creature to receive a good chance to survive a horrible emergency like Kitty’s. That takes one thing over all others: cash.

Take the following eloquent quote, for example (lifted from one of your comments):

“So far he's only once swallowed something he couldn't pass. That time, he spent several days in the hospital having it surgically removed. The bill was horrifyingly high; I put it on a credit card, and spent a long time paying it off. But after he came back from the hospital, I knew that if he did this again, I just wouldn't be able to pay for surgery a second time. So I worried greatly, knowing that if I had to take him to the hospital, I would find myself pleading for someone else to adopt him and pay for his care -- I wouldn't be able to authorize any care unless someone else would guarantee the bill. Would I have to have him euthanized because I couldn't pay?”

This is where most of us are at risk of finding ourselves some day. Unless we have huge disposable incomes or lots of credit available to us, there’s always going to be some price-point that we won’t be able to meet. What is it? One thousand? Five? Ten? Twenty?

Even vets are not immune. Our peers’ goodwill will only go so far. Ultimately, I’m as capable of racking up a ten-thousand dollar bill after one horrific hit-by-car as you are.

So what’s the answer? Apart from the education, will and luck that lead to pet-dedicated savings, nothing but a high disposable income will solve the problem for good. Except maybe…insurance.

As much as I fear the evils of insurance in vet medicine (intrusive as it can be), I see no other way to curb economic euthanasia. The ideal product for me would consist of a high-deductible insurance that would kick in after I’d already spent $500 per claim. For you it might be $1000 or $2500. Whatever your level, most of us need something to make appropriate treatment possible in the direst emergencies.

I can point fingers all I want at owners of underfunded calico kitties everywhere who wait until payday before taking their pets to the vet. But where would I be now if a dog mauled my new baby Frenchie? I’d be scared s---less of my mounting bills for bloodwork, transfusions, surgery, oxygen therapy and other intensive care.

Like a wise old tech once said: “Love is just not enough.”

And I just realized this applies to me, too.

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COMMENTS (13)
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by on 02/24/2007 09:50pm

"How do you plan on paying for vet bills?"

1) Setting aside something every month for 'pet money' -- to be used for emergencies and to pay for care until we get our check from the insurance company (See below)

2) Pet Insurance through the ASPCA. It's approximately $30/month and pays for routine care, illness and accident coverage, that is, once I pay the bill and submit the claim. So I have to have enough money to pay the vet in the first place.

3) Credit cards -- not the best option, but what else is there? My pet insurance only pays $2000/incident in case of accident and what if that's not enough to cover the surgery costs?

And even with the question of payment covered three ways (four if you count applying for CreditCare, which my vet will take) I STILL worry that I'm not doing enough in case of a catastrophe.

So I make sure that my dog is well trained (so that she won't cross a road without me, or eat something she shouldn't, or bite a stranger, or run away, or start -- or finish!-- a dog fight, etc), watch her diet and exercise like a hawk, only leave her with people I trust when I go to work, religiously brush her and give her baths and grooming, and hope that prevention plus the stuff I've listed is enough in case of an emergency.

I hope so. But I'm also thinking about the fact that even if she never has emergency expenses I will still have to pay, most likely, for her end of life costs --and I have to prepare financially for those too.

I hope I'm doing enough.

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by on 02/24/2007 05:36pm

I think you need to turn your question. Sometimes even money is not enough. My wonderful life-force Hanna (a 6 yr old Doxie/Min Pin) was diagnosed with a liver shunt just two months ago, did not make it after surgery at U C Davis. I am bereft. I knew the statistics. I just could not imagine someone so thoroughly alive as Hanna not making it. My daughter is a veterinarian, I know that Hanna got the best care possible. I know that the surgeon probably called her mother that week for consolation.

I just bring this up because it is important to know that sometimes even money is not enough.
Sometimes, nothing is enough.

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by on 02/23/2007 08:45pm

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I definitely will do some research into insurance. I think there really would be a niche out there for some insurance company to offer the kind of plans you describe to people who are ready to extend the concept of careful financial planning to their pet ownership. As I recall, one of the questions the more responsible shelters tend to ask potential adopters is "Have you considered how you will pay for veterinary care?" It would be really nice if they could give out some info about insurance at the same time.

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by on 02/23/2007 08:10pm

I've found emergencies always tend to happen the moment I either put money into savings OR prepare to get something fixed around my house. Needless to say, my house isn't fancy and my savings remain small ;( But at least I was able to pay the $1400 for my Dane who died from an intestinal blockage (vet misdiagnosed him- he pulled through the surgery, but died from a bacterial infection) and to treat a puppy for pneumonia ($2000) both in the same week. Did it kill me to spend that money? It would have killed me MORE to walk away- to let them go... And in the end, they both ended up at the Rainbow Bridge- so my money didn't help THEM, but it definitely helped me knowing I did what I could for them...

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by on 02/23/2007 06:40pm

As long as we are ruminating over adages to live by, here is one I learned during my internship:
"The kindest therapy is an accurate diagnosis."
I believe that veterinary medicine is full of what-ifs, and those lead to a lot of heartache, second-guessing and self-doubt. An accurate diagnosis clears the air and our conscience. An accurate diagnosis does not commit one to treatment; on the contrary, it may prevent over-treatment.

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by on 02/23/2007 04:03pm

When I had Angel's cancerous mass removed, my vet asked me if she had ever been hit by a car from the surgical suite. When I asked why, she told me that Angel had bits of spleen everywhere and that the only way this could have happened was from some type of trauma.

Angel has never been HBC while she has been with us, but considering her abusive past, I do not doubt for a second that she had been kicked as her first did just about every other abusive thing to her including hog tying her.

While my vet was mulling over my input, I asked if these bits of misplaced spleen could cause Angel harm, she told me no. With that I told her that if Angel was loaded with these cancerous masses regardless of their size I did not want to proceed with the surgery any further and she was to be put down on the table. My decision was not questioned, but I was told within seconds later that putting her down wouldn't be necessary as there was only one mass.

Angel had to endure 2 surgeries within a 2 day period. The first surgery was to remove the mass, but then after much discussion of the mass possibly returning, a intestinal resection was done with hopes that it would serve as a cure, which I'm happy to say did.

I hung around in surgery for the intestinal resection. I was there from the time they shaved her down to when her belly was sutured closed. All through the surgery it was explained to me how risky this type of surgery was and why.

Getting back to my point, I told my vet to put Angel down if more masses where found because I didn't want Angel to suffer anymore. She already survived 3 abusive owners, was not spayed and had to be treated for heartworms because the shelter she came from and the other a--hole owners never bothered to have her tested or give her heartworm pills. The thought of putting her through chemo on top of everything else was just something I was not willing to put her through. The cost of such treatments never entered my mind. I felt as though I was looking after Angel's best interest even though it would have ripped my heart out as she dealt with being spayed and having her heartworm treatment like a real trooper.

My vets office consists to 2 vets that have a regular schedule and a few that work out of the clinic as relief vets. The other vet that has a regular schedule is a great lady, but she feels as though surgery and mega-doses of drugs can cure everything. I try not to say too much as I believe she has nothing but the pets best interest in mind, but sometimes those things cannot cure everything.

Oreo has a heart problem. It has been there since he was 2 and there is only so much I can do about it. I can keep his weight down, feed him a good diet and monitor his overall well being as well as make sure he is not compensating from lack of oxygen, ect.

I was given a lecture about having Oreo ultrasounded a couple of weeks ago when I brought him in for his yearly physical. I've heard this lecture before and haven't done it yet. Oreo is comfortable and when he starts showing signs of further heart disease, I will have him euthanized as I'm not willing to bring him to Boston to have a pace maker put in. I have nothing against pet owners that put their pets through this surgery, but a pace maker cannot sure animals that suffer from renal disease, kidney failure or cancer should those problems come up after heart surgery. Ironically, this same vet has a Maine Coon at home with the same kind of heart problem and she hasn't had her cat ultrasounded either. I gave her alot of credit for her honesty, but left that appointment feeling confused and a tad annoyed that she could kept telling me "I'm just suggesting an ultrasound because if Oreo crashes, I'm not going to be responsible for it!"

I'm not sure why she'd even think that as I've been fully aware of Oreo's bad heart and keep close tabs on what is going on with him as I do with the rest of pets. They are allowed to be itchy and sneeze occasionally, but if they are having an off day, I'm on the phone or bringing them in to be seen.

I think pet owners need a fast education of what is going on with their pets before it is just assumed that surgery or lots of drugs can "fix" the problem. I'm not saying all vets do this as I know for a fact that is not true. My vet hates having to treat anything in an aggressive fashion as she knows it stresses the animal and it's owner, however, if that is what is called for and the client agrees to it, she'll do it and keep the owner informed of what is going on and what to look out for along the way.

The bottom line shouldn't always be about the almighty dollar. Instead it should be about what is in the animals best interest or the animals quality of life. If there is no quality of life, what is the point of forcing a animal to survive because people are selfish and don't want to let go. I saw far too many cases of that while I was working and all it did was make me more angry with every animal that came in that had such owners.

These animals had no life in them to speak of and that could be clearly seen just by looking into their eyes. There was no life or happiness in these animals, they were just putting up with whatever was being done to them to satisfy their "loving" humans. I found by asking some of these clients if they would like to live that way in a non-threatening tone and they always told me no, but their pets where different.

With such answers in mind, I'd make my way back to the noisy kennel and verbalize my thoughts about these owners as that was the only place they would never hear what I had to say about them. It was always those days when I was happy that dogs could not speak as what I had to say about those owners was never pleasant.

Love doesn't cure everything, nor does money.

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by on 02/23/2007 03:04pm

I want... really want... to take more pets home. To give them a good home and love and attention and a shot at stability and care. I want to walk into the nearest animal shelters and say give me the animals that have been here the longest- I'll take them home. But facing my current vet bills, I'd be a complete and utter idiot to do so. I have finally admitted to myself that I have as many as I can financially afford, and that's without emergencies like the one I had Wednesday. I know if my dog were hit by a car tomorrow, the likelihood of my affording to repair her would be slim to none. The only insurance I have seen covers routine stuff only, and costs about as much as the routine stuff.

What happened Wednesday- Sassy fat cat (diabetes, morbidly obese, 15/16 years old) went for a dental. While they were inducing anesthesia, she went into respiratory arrest. Ended up with a more expensive vet bill than just the dental and no cleaning done- but I still have a breathing cat. My spouse freaked and threatened we shouldn't pay- I told him we were going to pay and be happy we still had the cat, which is what we did. She's purring hoarsely at the moment, but that is tons better than not purring at all.

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