Q. I have a female dog and she has been very anxious, nervous , barks a lot. She has a toy that she's been carried everyone and she cries. Doesn't sleep
A. She is going to need to gain her confidence. It would be helpful to work with a professional trainer who has experience with anxiety. It will take time. It would also be helpful to stop carrying her around. I highly recommend getting her working with a trainer for this and working on some obedience. Getting her to complete basic things she knows like "sit" can build confidence and building a better human/dog relationship. This will start helping to get things on the track.