Q. Would a male cat be affectionate to another male cat or would a female be more affectionate
A. The sex of the cats is less important than the personality of each cat. If the cat you have at home is already a strong-willed cat, another cat like that will lead to a lot of confrontations as they both try to be in charge and an older cat shouldn't be matched with a rambunctious younger cat. If you keep in mind what your cat's basic nature is, you'll find a good match. I've always had multiple cats and rarely have a problem integrating a newcomer.